Dear Ciiku, As most of us in this age, I spend quite a bit of my time online. I have found wonderful resources that have helped me grow as a person, met some of my closest friends there, yaani, it’s just a place to laugh and learn. Some time last year I started talking to… Read More Ask Ciiku: How do I heal after being ghosted?
Dear Ciiku, My oldest friend will not accept who I have become. We met about nine years ago and I was pretty conservative then. I got into the church and tried out Christianity for a few years. It didn’t work out for me. I started reading on feminism and embracing it. For about four years… Read More Ask Ciiku: My friend doesn’t accept me
Hi Ciiku. My boyfriend and I are high school sweethearts, so we’ve been dating for many years. We are sure we want to spend the rest of our lives together and have even discussed marriage. He has hinted that he would like to propose soon. I truthfully would like to marry him because he’s a… Read More Ask Ciiku: Are we too young to get married?
I have said it and will repeat, Dela’s album Paukwa is one of the best Kenyan albums ever. But I am not here to discuss Paukwa. Dela released her latest album, 9 years after her first one, titled Public Demand on 30th April. The album has 15 songs and is 53 minutes long. In an… Read More Music Review: Dela – Public Demand
Hi Ciiku, I am friends with a girl and I think I’m developing feelings for her. We hang out a lot and enjoy each other’s company. I haven’t yet told her how I feel yet, but this is because I think it might ruin what we have. I am not sure my feelings are reciprocated.… Read More Ask Ciiku: Will our friendship survive?
Hi Ciiku. I’m a fattie, and I love the work you do for body positivity. I like to think I’m body positive myself- except for *myself*. I can’t stand my body. I hate my flabs and tummy and how round my face has become. I cannot look in the mirror and call myself a beautiful… Read More Ask Ciiku: I have internalised fatphobia
Hey, how does one know that they actually like someone and it isn’t just as a consequence of that person saying they like them. I am starting to think I may not know the difference. Missy Dear Missy, I read in a book; The single greatest predictor of love is proximity. Your point stands and… Read More Ask Ciiku: How do you know when you like someone?