I was talking with BM about the conversation around playing Kenyan music since I was thinking about writing something about it. I then, as I often do, asked him if he wanted to write something about it. And he did. LAMBA LOLO Some time mid-last year someone retweeted a thirty second clip on the timeline.… Read More Guest Post – #PlayKE – Lamba Lolo
Hey Ciiku. I’ve been in an LDR relationship for a little over two years now. We stay quite far away from each other and see each other maybe three times a year. I still stay at home and have a flexible schedule so I’m the one who travels to see him. When I do, I… Read More Ask Ciiku: Should I Dump Him?
“rangi yake kama mzungu“ In 2019? This is a lyric a Kenyan will utter in 2019? Colourism much? I keep saying that there is music for which I am not the target market. But even before I get into that, please see the first Masauti song/video that I listened/watched: I like this particular song. It… Read More Music: Masauti – Kiboko
Hi Ciiku, My partner says I’m a coward and I took great offense. Perhaps you can help me see whether it’s true or not. I tend respond “late” to things people say or do to me that I find uncomfortable or offensive. Meaning, if someone offends me I won’t let them know they’re offending me… Read More Ask Ciiku: Am I a Coward?
Hi Ciiku, I’ve been seeing this guy for about 3 months now and everything has been going great. I recently brought up that I would like to initiate a relationship in the near future thinking we are on the same page, when he revealed that he isn’t sure of what he wants, generally, and by… Read More Ask Ciiku: I want a clearly defined relationship
Does anyone ever write a “worst of (insert year)” post? This is likely to be my last post of this year. A year of moderate highs and the LOWEST of LOWS. I started this blog in February this year (a high). So far, I have published 86 posts (one guest post) and have accumulated just… Read More Ciiku’s Best of 2018
I spend an inordinate amount of time analysing my relationships with the people in my life. From family, husband, friends…… All of them. This post is about my relationships with my friends. And the future of these friendships. The other day, I wondered if my friends would ever throw me a party. I don’t even… Read More Anytime you need a friend