There is this thing I am trying to unlearn – where I make considerations for people who would never make the same consideration for me.
Example: when I don’t want to do something for someone but then I make excuses as to why I should.
When we are told to choose ourselves, at moments, it means that you say no, even though years of socialisation has said that you should say yes. Has told you to give people chances.
The thing is, not everyone deserves me – My time, my words, my space, my energy. And disregarding this instinct within me is a waste of my good good time.