The other day I asked on Instagram how often you should tell someone that you are holding space for them.
I was only thinking about how, for example, at this time when there is so much going on in the world, how we remind our people that we are thinking of them or even that we can listen to them etc.
Because listen, we are in turmoil. I don’t care how much we want to act like things are “normal” ….. so of course this affects many things in life. Including our emotional well-being.
So I ask, do you want to be validated? That people are here for you? Ready to be your friend?
Sometimes I feel like we want certain people to fulfil specific roles in life even though it never works out at times so I have been thinking about who we want to hold space and whether they are interested in doing so. You know?