We are all on social media and the conversations are cyclical but no conversation is as boring, unimaginative and uninspired as hetero relationship talk.
At this point it has become amusing to me.
Why you ask?
Because at the foundation of it all is the fact that somehow, someway, these men somehow believe that just by being around they have added value to women’s lives. Just by being in the area.
And then spend time telling you how wrong you are to divest from relationships with them. Like honestly.
At this point I think you must IMAGINE better things for yourself. Especially as capitalism continues to suck everything out of our soul.
And in the absence of imagining better, just maintain silence. 😌🤷🏾♀️
PS: Before y’all tell me things, disclaimers:
- Loneliness and wanting to be partnered with men (I mean, I am) is a valid thing but at this point just go in with realistic expectations. Hollywood and romanticism has got some of you holding onto some romantic notions that make no sense.
- Longevity doesn’t mean shit especially when not backed by other things like contentment and joy and all that stuff.
- I am not the one.
- There is nothing like a feminist marriage.