Hi Ciiku, I’ve been seeing this guy for about 3 months now and everything has been going great. I recently brought up that I would like to initiate a relationship in the near future thinking we are on the same page, when he revealed that he isn’t sure of what he wants, generally, and by… Read More Ask Ciiku: He doesn’t want to define the relationship
Hi Ciiku, I broke up with my boyfriend a little over a year ago and even dated someone else a few months later. Here is my issue, the reasons we broke up was that I didn’t know of his other family until his wife confronted me. He told me they were done but alas, I… Read More Ask Ciiku: Will I Ever Get Over This?
Music means a lot to me. Not in the sense that I made a career of it. But that in 2018, it literally gave me life. 2018 has been terrible. Not to say that good things haven’t happened, but as a whole? I wouldn’t be exaggerating by saying that it is the worst year I… Read More 2018 and Music and Me
Dela can sing. Not sing sing. Really SING. Definitely top vocal talent in Kenya. I reviewed her latest album here. She recently featured, again, in a song by that guy. If you must watch it, click here (I cannot be objective when it comes to that fellow, don’t ask me to be). I am going… Read More Dela: I wanna talk
Sometimes people do something for you that you never asked them to and you have to be the person who tells them “By the way, thanks but I really don’t need you to do that.” And then you look like the bad guy because you seem like you can’t accept when someone does something nice… Read More Whatever you want, whatever you need
“Oh wow you are so confident!” “When did you become so confident?” “How did you become so confident?” These things make my eyes roll so much. I follow enough fat people on Instagram to see how often this question about confidence is asked. It is so irksome that the expectation, the norm is that we… Read More Fat and Confident
This post has been written by Dot, a dear friend of mine. She initially asked what I thought of the album (I hadn’t listened to it at the time) and we agreed she should guest post on the blog. Sweet and Sawa, the first musical album released by creative haus The Nest Collective, cleverly opens… Read More Music Review: Sweet and Sawa – The Nest Collective