Dear Ciiku I have a friend who spends some months of the year out of the country. We talk a lot and whenever she’s having a problem I try be supportive and help her out. However, I’ve noticed that whenever she’s in the country the friendship changes. We talk less and there is little if… Read More Ask Ciiku: I feel like a dial-a-friend
Hi Ciiku, I’ve had a rough couple of months and in this period I made a friend who seemed to have come into my life at the point where I had given up on people. We have grown rather comfortable with each other, we share details of what is happening and talk at least once… Read More Ask Ciiku: I Distrust My Friend
Hey Ciiku! I’ll get right to it. Dating your sibling’s friend who really really gets you, thoughts? Reese Dear Reese, My thoughts are that two consenting adults should date if they so choose. Now that that’s out of the way, I am curious as to the hesitation or even doubt about the situation. As though… Read More Ask Ciiku: Thoughts on dating you sibling’s friend
Dear Ciiku, As most of us in this age, I spend quite a bit of my time online. I have found wonderful resources that have helped me grow as a person, met some of my closest friends there, yaani, it’s just a place to laugh and learn. Some time last year I started talking to… Read More Ask Ciiku: How do I heal after being ghosted?
Dear Ciiku, My oldest friend will not accept who I have become. We met about nine years ago and I was pretty conservative then. I got into the church and tried out Christianity for a few years. It didn’t work out for me. I started reading on feminism and embracing it. For about four years… Read More Ask Ciiku: My friend doesn’t accept me
Hi Ciiku, I am friends with a girl and I think I’m developing feelings for her. We hang out a lot and enjoy each other’s company. I haven’t yet told her how I feel yet, but this is because I think it might ruin what we have. I am not sure my feelings are reciprocated.… Read More Ask Ciiku: Will our friendship survive?
Hi Ciiku. I’m a fattie, and I love the work you do for body positivity. I like to think I’m body positive myself- except for *myself*. I can’t stand my body. I hate my flabs and tummy and how round my face has become. I cannot look in the mirror and call myself a beautiful… Read More Ask Ciiku: I have internalised fatphobia