At times we project arbitrary notions of morality on other people because they refuse to confirm to societal norms. I’m contemplating how I consume and react to content I come across. Either by reading, listening etc. For example consuming other peoples reactions to things and being able to not internalise their reactions as my own.… Read More Things I am Thinking About

You know anime and I go together so when Nyambura messaged me that there was an anime screening at the Japanese Embassy, I was very stoked to go. And go we did. And while there, I realised that going for that plan is such a good date idea because of the following: It is free… Read More Two Date Ideas

Do you sometimes get the feeling that your purpose for living is to fulfill other people’s expectations of what they think you should do? Or how they think you should live? I mean, I have written before about parents etc (click here). I was listening to a podcast episode recently where one the hosts said… Read More The Cruel Absurdity of Other People’s Expectations

You ever look at your life from an aerial point of view and wonder to yourself “how did I get here?” I do. These last two years especially. Recently I told my friend that my self awareness is at an all time high. This includes: I know the things that are problematic about me yet… Read More How Did I Get Here?

I often ask people if happiness is a personal goal. And if it indeed is, what happiness looks like to them, how they define it etc. I think this particular aspect of living fascinates me. I usually get a myriad of responses. Some I sense that a lot of thought has gone into it, very… Read More The Unending Pursuit of Happiness

What a lovely weekend that was. I told my friend yesterday that I felt so full of joy. And I did. Especially on Saturday evening when I went for my cousin’s birthday shindig. I felt truly joyful. I was looking good, the food was good, the wine delicious, the people also and the music dope.… Read More Sweet Joy

Sushi. I always want sushi, and I had sushi on Saturday mind you. Someone I can be sending music that made me smile and then talking about each and every song. To understand my anger. To go for a long drive. Probably alone. This thought isn’t really thought out completely. New stationery. To finally watch… Read More Things I Want