If you’ve listened to the latest episode of the podcast, you know that I said that in my youth, I would be influenced to do things – like make up and all that. Also I have often said that I don’t care about fashion. You will often find me either in maxi dresses or jeans… Read More Hips and “Feminine” Clothes
I believe I am a better driver than most people. I listen and this sometimes is confused for caring. I think I want to go back to school. I still have to deal with some low key internalised fat phobia when it comes to taking pictures/videos of myself. I was, in another lifetime, in the… Read More Things I Think About Myself
Recently, I was told things that hurt me. They were meant to hurt me, to blackmail me even. However, part of doing inner work is realising when this is happening and not feeling swayed. Now, knowing this doesn’t make the pain less, but it does make it easier to see things for what they are… Read More Emotional Blackmail
As you read this, please know that I have nothing against helping people, even strangers. There was a time when being helpful was like my side gig. I was, it seemed, very invested in providing assistance, always on the ready, as if I was collecting badges. I was helping a myriad of people, some of… Read More The Folly of Being Helpful
Let me start by saying that I don’t believe in the notion of good people. I just think people do good acts/things at times. Now Kindness? That is a whole other story. We are selfish, we want things to go our way. And even when we do things for the good of other people, most… Read More Going to Church does not make you Good
I have been thinking what attracts me to the music I listen to. I listen to different genres of music but there are some I find myself drifting towards. Why do I drift towards that kind of music? I like emotional music. And by that I mean music that makes me feel a type of… Read More Why I Enjoy the Music I Enjoy
In reading Brene Brown she says: Living a connected life ultimately is about setting boundaries, spending less time and energy hustling and winning over people who don’t matter, and seeing the value of working on cultivating connection with family and close friends Brene Brown – Daring Greatly I found the concept of “winning people over”… Read More Matching Energies AKA Going Where You Are Wanted
