I believe I am a better driver than most people. I listen and this sometimes is confused for caring. I think I want to go back to school. I still have to deal with some low key internalised fat phobia when it comes to taking pictures/videos of myself. I was, in another lifetime, in the… Read More Things I Think About Myself
Why is the font on most hearses the calligraphy looking one? Is it an industry standard? Is there a worse mall exit than the one at Yaya Centre? Has anyone successfully sued the government for damage to their car because of potholes? Why can’t we ever quit Safaricom despite KNOWING our data disappears randomly? And… Read More Questions that Need Answers
As you read this, please know that I have nothing against helping people, even strangers. There was a time when being helpful was like my side gig. I was, it seemed, very invested in providing assistance, always on the ready, as if I was collecting badges. I was helping a myriad of people, some of… Read More The Folly of Being Helpful
Let me start by saying that I don’t believe in the notion of good people. I just think people do good acts/things at times. Now Kindness? That is a whole other story. We are selfish, we want things to go our way. And even when we do things for the good of other people, most… Read More Going to Church does not make you Good
I do not celebrate Valentine’s but I get the hoopla around it and anyway this post came from a conversation that happened on Sunday. So here I am – with ideas. Firstly, if you are planning a Valentine’s thing, who says it has to be on Friday? I mean, the whole weekend is there. So… Read More Date Ideas – Valentine’s Weekend
In reading Brene Brown she says: Living a connected life ultimately is about setting boundaries, spending less time and energy hustling and winning over people who don’t matter, and seeing the value of working on cultivating connection with family and close friends Brene Brown – Daring Greatly I found the concept of “winning people over”… Read More Matching Energies AKA Going Where You Are Wanted
I do not want: To feel small. To be made to feel small. To engage in discussions with people who refuse to do a simple Google search. To insert myself in spaces, places I am not wanted. To become hardened by what’s going on. To become apathetic. To refuse to see what is right in… Read More Things I Do Not Want
