Dear Ciiku, I have a FWB who is also a very close friend. I would like to ensure that it remains that way without feelings getting caught in the process but to also not treat them poorly in order to maintain this. How do I/we build the boundaries this relationship needs? Anon Dear Anon, A… Read More Ask Ciiku: I need to define boundaries with my friend with benefits
Dear Ciiku, So I’ve had this friend for about 10 years. I use the term ‘friend’ very loosely here, reason being she’s very toxic. We were very close in college but drifted apart soon after. We lost track but she somehow managed to find her way back into my life. Thing is: she gossips a… Read More Ask Ciiku: How do I deal with a toxic friend?
Hey Ciiku! I’ll get right to it. Dating your sibling’s friend who really really gets you, thoughts? Reese Dear Reese, My thoughts are that two consenting adults should date if they so choose. Now that that’s out of the way, I am curious as to the hesitation or even doubt about the situation. As though… Read More Ask Ciiku: Thoughts on dating you sibling’s friend
Hi Ciiku, I am friends with a girl and I think I’m developing feelings for her. We hang out a lot and enjoy each other’s company. I haven’t yet told her how I feel yet, but this is because I think it might ruin what we have. I am not sure my feelings are reciprocated.… Read More Ask Ciiku: Will our friendship survive?
Hey, how does one know that they actually like someone and it isn’t just as a consequence of that person saying they like them. I am starting to think I may not know the difference. Missy Dear Missy, I read in a book; The single greatest predictor of love is proximity. Your point stands and… Read More Ask Ciiku: How do you know when you like someone?
Hi Ciiku, I broke up with my boyfriend of two years a little over a month ago and it’s been the most miserable time in my life. We met a almost 3 years ago through mutual friends and and struck up conversation and became closer with time. I have never known anyone like him, he… Read More Ask Ciiku: Should I have broken up with my boyfriend?
Hey Ciiku, So my issue starts with a question. Do you believe that everyone has a person out there and eventually they’ll find them? Because I’m at that place where I don’t think this is true anymore, and some people really end up alone. And like, I’m learning to accept it, I’ve decided to give… Read More Ask Ciiku: I don’t want to be lonely
Dear Ciiku, I like a girl. She has a boyfriend. Has had one for 6 years. I know I shouldn’t be fucking with her, but here I am, nonetheless. We go on dates, we’ve had sex on 3 separate occasions, and we talk pretty much all the time, telling me things she doesn’t feel comfortable… Read More Ask Ciiku: I am being manipulated